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DeepfakesAugust 19, 20265 min read

How to Spot a Deepfake: What to Teach Your Kids This Week

The old advice was to look for six fingers and strange teeth. That advice is expired. Here is what still works.

Stop checking pixels, start checking sources

Detection by eyeball is a losing game and it gets worse every few months. The durable skill is not spotting a flaw in the image, it is asking where the image came from.

Teach one question: who first posted this, and can I find it anywhere else? A real event has more than one source. A fabricated one usually has a screenshot and a lot of outrage.

The three scams aimed at families

These show up again and again in real households.

  • The voice call. A cloned voice says a family member is in trouble and needs money or a code, right now.
  • The fake nude. An ordinary photo of a classmate is altered and shared. This is the one kids are least likely to tell you about.
  • The trusted face. A familiar creator or celebrity appears to endorse a giveaway, an investment, or a download.

A family code word

Pick a word nobody outside the household knows. If a call sounds like a relative in a panic, the word gets asked for before anything else happens. It takes two minutes to set up and it defeats the most effective scam on this list.

What to say when your kid sees a fake of someone they know

Lead with: you are not in trouble, and this is not your fault. Then screenshot, do not forward, and report it in the app. If it involves a minor, it is a school and often a police matter, not a group chat matter.

Kids stay quiet when they think reporting will cost them their phone. Say out loud that it will not.

You cannot out-squint a deepfake. You can teach one question about sources, set a family code word, and make sure your kid knows telling you is safe.

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